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Tennis- Successful Parental Habits

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Successful Parental Habits

Tennis parents rarely get the spotlight, but without their influence and leadership, most athletes wouldn’t even make their local high school squad. I chatted with the parents of my top nationally ranked juniors to find out what they had in common. These parents teach their children ownership of their tennis careers. Below are six commonalities found in the parents of top competitors.

Solutions:

  1. After each tennis lesson, these parents ask their athletes to teach them the concepts they’ve just learned. Learning by teaching solidifies their knowledge, which improves confidence. Communication skills enhance memorization.
  2. For each private lesson their athlete takes, they schedule a hitting session or a practice match utilizing those improvements. Solidifying stroke adjustments takes repetition. Memorizing new material in the form of plays and patterns takes time.
  3. Successful tennis parents have their athletes play sets with paid college hitters. The parent hires the hitter and instructs them to play the style their child has trouble with in competition.
  4. These parents ask them to rehearse their secondary tools, and contingency game plans in group training sessions. They know if their player doesn’t rehearse their plan B, it likely won’t hold up under pressure.
  5. If their child despises playing a retriever, they ask their coaches to stop simply grooving to each other in practice and develop the keep-away patterns used to pull retrievers out of their game.
  6. Successful tennis parents replace some of the hours of drilling with completing practice sets. Practicing in the manner, they’re expected to perform requires a different set of skills than most academy training. Software management stems from being judged, and that involves competition. Being a great competitor is different from being a great stationary ball striker.

The Practice Court

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Please don’t mistake busy work with progression. If your child seeks athletic royalty status, it’s the parent’s responsibility to be aware who is actually on their child’s practice court training them (head coach vs rookie assistant), what the daily focus is (stroke repetition, movement, mental or emotional training), and how their athlete is being trained (large group setting, semi-private) day-in and day-out.

 

“The practice court is where dreams are either
dreamt or actually developed.”

The College Search Process- Part 1

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As a tennis parent, the long term development and direction of your athlete is a natural concern. The serious tennis players will likely set their sights on playing college ball. So it is not surprising that week in and week out, one of the most frequent question parents ask me, is how to go about obtaining a college sports scholarship for their child?

First of all, college sports are not recreational activities to dabble in while attending college.  College athletics is a business and the school expects their college team to win.

There’s a major difference between participating in your preferred sport as a hobbyist versus training for college athletics (pursuing a college scholarship). The question athletes should ask themselves is, “Do I want to be a hobbyist athlete or do I want to be an elite athlete?” The truth of the matter is…you’ll have to pick one, because you can’t be both.

 

“Top college recruits are former National or ITF Junior standouts.”

 

Serious competitors are nurtured differently than social competitors. College athletics requires more than seasonal participation in high school ball. The following list three pillars that separate the college scholarship players from the hobbyist:

1) Junior champions are born into inspiring and supportive environments.

Parental support is essential for athletic excellence. Becoming educated in the process is your job. Great coaches and trainers are there to assist you in your mission to raise a champion. Examples of extremely lucky athletes who were born into the right FAMILY environment include Mcllroy, Woods, Phelps, Evert, Agassi, Chang, Sampras, Hingis, Roddick, Williams, Murray, Nadal, Federer, Sharapova, Wozniacki, Djokovic, and Bryans just to name a few.

 

2) The love for the game is encouraged and nurtured early and consistently.

Athletic royalty becomes royalty with the help of loving and supportive parents and coaches that guide and oversee their athlete’s passion from an early age. Achieving greatness comes with great sacrifice from parents, coaches, and the athlete. As they all laugh and learn throughout the incredible journey.

3) Champions strive to improve.

Elite athletes continually improve each essential component. There are other athletes in every corner of the globe training harder and smarter each day.  Champions know they cannot be complacent with their game.  Weekly improvement is part of the champions’ mindset. Congratulations! By purchasing this book, it is obvious that you are taking the right steps toward improvement.

Preparing for Pressure

Preparing athletes for pressure is a form of preventative medicine. I will soon be releasing Preparing for Pressure. This book came to light organically. It began as a Professional Tennis Registry (PTR) Tennis Pro Magazine instructional article and quickly ballooned into a full-blown book.

The purpose of Preparing for Pressure is to provide solutions to assist those athletes that are able to thrive on the practice court only to wilt under game-day pressure. Many athletes have the will to compete but they often fail to find the will to prepare.  I’ve found that performing well under pressure begins with preparing the athlete’s software for the heaviness of competition.

The US Navy Seal’s motto best describes insight into the solution to performing under pressure:

“We don’t rise to the occasion…we sink to the level of our training.”

The often debilitating scenario athlete’s face during competition is remedied with deliberate mental and emotional training. Very few athletes are born competitive tennis experts. Performing their best when they need it the most is nurtured.

What is Competitive Pressure?

“Competitive pressure is the lousy partner of great opportunity.”

Pressure is created in the minds of our athletes and/or their sphere of influence. Managing pressure starts by spotting the cause. In amateur sports, the pressure is either self-imposed or nurtured by unaware parents or coaches. Pressure manifests when we imagine what might happen if we don’t achieve the outcome we desire or what others expect.

The following scenario depicts an athlete failing to train in the manner he is expected to perform.

Brian’s frustration begins like clockwork each tournament match. This solid athlete can’t understand why he’s not able to duplicate his practice level in tournament competition. Friday on the practice court, Brian grooves his fundamental groundstrokes for hours.

Essentially playing “catch” back and forth. In this setting, Brian thinks: “Tennis is easy! Forget juniors…Man, I’m going pro!”

Fast forward to Saturday morning. Brian’s internal and external stressors ramp up because the practice court environment of catch is nowhere to be found. The friendly face on the other side of the net is now replaced by an intimidating, confrontational warrior whose hell bent on torturing poor Brian.

Come game day, that cozy, cooperative game of “catch” turns into a violent struggle of “keep away”. Brian would be wise to practice in the manner he’s truly expected to perform.

Preparing for pressure # 1 rule: Practice in the manner you’re expected to perform

What Causes Pressure in Competition?

 
“Performance anxiety is the habit of worrying.”

Pressure begins with the arrival of the athlete’s inner critic. That little “Devil on their shoulder” appears like clockwork when the match doesn’t go as planned.

Some athletes stress about every minute detail while others confront setbacks in warrior mode. Because no two athletes are exactly alike, preparing for pressure begins with an assessment of the athlete’s and their entourage’s stress level as it pertains to the reality of tournament competition.

Competitive Pressure Triggers Include:
  • The Games Scoring System
  • The Opponents Style Of Tactical Play
  • Gamesmanship
  • The Draw/Seeding
  • Spectators
  • The Environment/Conditions
  • The Court Surface
  • Current Fitness/Energy Levels
  • Untrustworthy Strokes
  • Outcome Anxieties
I’ve found that taking an inventory and talking through their tennis stressors is a great start to overcoming issues and developing confident solutions.

Every athlete feels pressure; it is how they’ve been nurtured to deal with it that counts.

Preparing athletes for pressure is a form of preventative medicine. It inoculates athletes with solutions for common performance anxieties. The solutions vaccinate the athlete, coaches, and parents against the onslaught of emotional toxins found in competition.

Congratulations Frank!

CONGRATULATIONS to Frank Giampaolo

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2019 PTR International Newcomer Tennis Professional of the Year!

The Soft Science of Tennis Testimonials

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THE SOFT SCIENCE OF TENNIS 

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“This is an absolute must read book for all coaches and professionals. Frank really knows his stuff!”

Allistair McCaw, Ft Lauderdale, Florida, World renowned sports performance and mindset coach, speaker, and author.

 

The Soft Science of Tennis is filled with golden nuggets of wisdom that can be implemented to achieve peak performance on and off the court. As a high-performance coach, I am fascinated and downright obsessed with helping players, parents, and coaches. This book is a game changer! Frank has done a masterful job of going deep into the how communication, self-talk, and understanding personality types impact performance. I strongly recommend The Soft Science of Tennis to anyone interested in going to the next level.”

Jeff Salzenstein, Denver Colorado, Founder of Tennis Evolution, Former Top 100 ATP Singles And Doubles Player, Stanford All-American, USTA High-Performance Coach, and co-creator of The Connection Game

 

“I recommend that every USPTA and PTR professional should read this book. It will help them be more successful in their business and personal life. I am going to have all my pros read it. Thanks, Frank for making our industry grow!”

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“Frank Giampaolo’s ability to share his real-world tennis experience provides coaches and parents a toolbox for Effective Communication! The Soft Science of Tennis provides a practical Game Plan to help our athletes. Problems are identified; their causes isolated and specific Action Steps recommended. Who could ask for more?”

Dr. Bryce Young, Hilton Head South Carolina co-author of The Courtside Coach: A Personal Mental Trainer for Tennis Players and Mental Coach for 300 university teams

 

“Frank is in front of his time as a coach. By writing a book dedicated to the soft skills of being a tennis coach, Frank demonstrates his enormous experience and understanding of what it truly takes to be an extraordinary coach. The soft skills are without a doubt a neglected area of coaching that is essential to the effectiveness of coaching. In this book, Frank dissects the area and provides an easy to understand framework of how you can better your soft skills.”

Adam Blicher, Odense, Denmark, Sports Psychology Consultant, Awarded Coach of the year, Danish National coach, Host of the highest rated Tennis Coaches Podcast on iTunes.

 

GREAT COACHES

GREAT COACHES…

  • Are Energized & Entertaining
  • Teach Much More Than Fundamentals
  • Are Optimistic & Laugh-Out-Loud Fun
  • Provide Short & Long Term Goals
  • Open the Athlete’s Mind with Praise & Hope
  • Are Knowledgeable about Current Sports Science
  • Touch the Athlete’s Heart with Passionate Story Telling
  • Have a Deep Understanding about Biomechanics
  • Offer a Deliberate, Customized Developmental Plan
  • Inspire Confidence & Love of the Game
  • Are Focused Empathetic Listeners
  • Are Content Being Great Coaches!

 

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Learning By Observing World Class Coaches

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Observing World Class Coaches

If you aren’t financially in a position to hire world class coaches, contact them and explain your circumstance. Ask them if you can stop by, sit and quietly observe them working with their high-performance athletes. Also, keep in mind that most top coaches have websites, newsletters and YouTube clips available at no cost.

As I said before, emotional aptitude stems from proper training. It’s the athlete’s job to seek out the best possible resources and then customize their very own training regiments. Around the world, I see too many talented athletes wasting far too much time in stagnant group training sessions with peers who are giving minimal effort.

Responsibility and accountability are what transform a good athlete into a champion. Change occurs when an athlete chooses to bring maximum effort to their customized training regimen. Up your organizational skills and you’ll truly enjoy the journey. More importantly, you’ll love the results!

Responsibility and Accountability Check List

For those “Do it yourself” types, the below checklist will assist you in maximizing athletic potential at a quicker rate.

  • Create Goals and Schedules

I recommend brainstorming and coming up with both short term and long term goals. With goals in mind, schedule daily, weekly and even yearly plans. Athletes who apply goals and schedules succeed because they know where they’re going.

  • Apply Consistent Smart Practice

To reinforce proper training, a deliberate customized developmental plan is critical. Training sessions should focus on what needs to be improved versus grooving what is comfortable. Specific goals need specific plans.

  • Hire a High I.Q. Teacher

Seek out the most qualified expert you can find who understands the emotional component. Athletes actually save time and money by hiring an expert. While the experienced teacher’s hourly rate may be higher, they’ll access your greatness ten times faster.

  • Utilize Video Analysis

It is important to understand that a large majority of competitive failures are a result of poor emotional aptitude, which is only brought to light through game day video replay. You have to learn why you lose before you can learn how to win.

  • Repetition of Protocols

Repetition of the same actions making it an automatic reflex. This may mean working on a specific physical, mental or emotional protocol for 30 minutes every day for a month. It’s not uncommon to have a two-year action plan while developing unnatural components.

  • Practice Doesn’t Make Perfect – Practice Makes Permanent

A common pitfall of intermediate athletes is grooving their flawed mechanics. This essentially is motor programming inefficient technique, which ultimately results in countless wasted hours of training with no improvement in sight.

  • Be Patient

Nurturing new skills require patience. Athletes should be reminded that it likely took years and years to develop their fundamental skill sets. Anything and everything that is new is often perceived as difficult before it becomes easy. Enjoy the process.