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Is proper nutrition and hydration really that important? Part 2

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1) A Healthy Balanced Diet and the Athlete

A healthy balanced diet refers to a diet that includes a variety of whole foods that are naturally high in nutrients.  An elite athlete benefits from a diet of healthy carbohydrates, lean proteins and good fats 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. The competitive athlete must properly fuel their bodies every day and not just during training and competition.

Due to the high demands athletes place on their body, especially during competition, healthy carbohydrates are an athlete’s ultimate fuel. (F.Y.I.: High protein low carbohydrate diets are not a beneficial diet for maximizing athletic performance.)

“Carbohydrates are the preferred source of energy for muscle contraction and brain function.”

When planning a balanced diet, it is important to differentiate between healthy carbohydrates (fruits, vegetables, whole grains, beans, low fat dairy…) and unhealthy carbohydrates (highly refined white sugar and white flour products junk foods). While they both provide energy to the body, unhealthy carbohydrates may steal nutrients from the body, damage brain health and add empty calories; whereas healthy carbohydrates add valuable nutrients and fiber to the diet.

It is important to note that during exercise and/or match play when quick energy is needed, simple forms of carbohydrate are best. This is because the body needs sugar quickly and simple carbohydrates are easiest for the body to break down and provide energy (sugar to the blood stream.) Commonly used simple carbohydrates include easily digestible fruits such as dates or bananas, diluted sports beverages, carbohydrate sports gels and some athletes even use small sugar candies or small bites of high simple carbohydrate bars. The preference of many elite athletes are diluted sports drinks and a banana. (Note: Some athletes prefer energy gels- but be sure to try them prior to competition as not all tolerate energy gels well.) Specific optimum nutrition will vary with each individual.

Healthy Daily Diet Components to Include:

Healthy Carbohydrates
Whole grains, beans, legumes, pasta, whole grain cereals, lean dairy (yogurt, shakes, cottage cheese, cheese and milk), fruits and vegetables.

Healthy Lean Proteins
Chicken, turkey, seafood, lean meat, beans, legumes, eggs and lean dairy (Note: dairy contains carbohydrates and protein.)

Healthy Good Fats
Avocados, nuts, seeds, salmon, olive oil and nut/seed/vegetable oils in small amounts/portion control.

Fluids
Water, electrolyte water, sports drinks, diluted sports drinks (or homemade sports drinks), diluted fruit juice, low fat/ non-fat milk, low fat fruit smoothies, and lean protein low sugar shakes.

Un-Healthy Daily Diet Components to Avoid:

Bad Fats
Such as Trans fats (Partially hydrogenated oils), junk foods, fast foods, donuts, fried foods, creamers, processed foods and excessive Saturated fats (fatty meats, hot dogs, sausage, full fat cheese, ice cream, shakes etc.)

Processed Carbohydrates and Refined Foods
Candy, cookies, cakes, sodas and processed foods made with white sugar, flour and bad fats. (Note: Simple sugar products (not loaded with fats and proteins) may be an appropriate during intense activity.)

Fluids
High sugar drinks or full fat and high sugar ice cream shakes, most blended coffee drinks…

2) Proper Hydration and the Athlete

“Even mild dehydration (1% dehydration) impairs a number of important aspects of cognitive function such as concentration, alertness, headaches, muscle fatigue and short-term memory.  A loss of just over two percent can cause muscle cramping and severe health consequences.”

Simple plain water is the preferred beverage for most athletes during training. Sports drinks with added electrolytes and carbohydrates may be needed for longer workouts/matches (over approximately 90 minutes of intense activity) or for workouts in extreme weather.

Diluted sports drinks are usually recommended over full strength sports drink. High sugar sports drink may cause cramping during exercise. It is best to experiment with hydration levels and hydration products on the practice court. It is important to hydrate throughout the day, not just during a match.

Note: While it is essential to maintain proper hydration, the athlete must also be cautious not to over- hydrate.

General Hydration Guidelines: 

Short Workouts of Low to Moderate Intensity
May simply require staying hydrated- water is usually best.

Short Intense Workouts
May require both hydration and carbohydrate replacement- diluted sports drinks work best for most athletes. 

Longer Intense Workouts
May require hydration, carbohydrate replacement and/or electrolyte replenishment. Individual need (exercise intensity/weather) will necessitate the specific type of hydration.

Post Workout Hydration:

Proper hydration after an intense workout will help the bodies heal and recover more efficiently. The best way to determine the amount needed to replace is by the athlete weighing themselves before and after exercise. For every pound of body weight lost, consume about 3 cups of fluid. Weighing before and after a workout just a few times will give the athlete an idea of their typical water loss during a workout.

Another measure of hydration is checking the athlete’s urine color. If their urine is dark yellow in color- it may be a sign of dehydration. The athlete’s urine should be relatively clear or pale yellow in color. (Note: If supplements are taken, especially B- vitamins, a false dark yellow urine may be the result of the vitamins and not your hydration level.)

3) Proper Nutrition Timing and the Athlete

Proper timing of food and fluid intake will enhance performance. Obviously, a lack of proper fuel will impair performance. Match time nutrition is especially important and special attention should be given to food volume, fiber, fats, and proteins – as these may cause abdominal distress during exercise.

Carbohydrates, such as low fat dairy, breads, potatoes, pasta and rice, are the quickest to digest. Meals/snacks should be athlete specific- considering food tolerances, work out intensity and duration.

General Guideline for Nutrition Timing:

The general guidelines for peak performance are to maintain proper hydration and avoid a full stomach just prior to performance. A delicate balance of food and fluid is based on individual need. Studies have generally found that it doesn’t matter whether you get your pre-­workout calories from solid food or fluid.

Pre-Workout Meal (several hours before exercise)

Include easily digestible foods high in complex carbohydrates, such as pasta, yogurt, breads, sandwiches, easily digested fruits and vegetables.  Avoid large amounts of fat, protein and fiber the closer to your workout- digestion of fats, fiber and proteins require longer digestion times and may impede performance. (See following question.)

Thirty Minutes Prior

A small meal or snack just prior to your child’s workout will help engage their brain and muscles.  Sample small meals or snacks include:  yogurt, fruit smoothie, a banana, a low calorie granola bar, peanut butter and whole grain crackers or a small sandwich for a workout lasting approximately 60 or 90 minutes.

During Workout

The greater the workout intensity, the greater the need for quick energy carbohydrates such as bananas or diluted sports drinks.  For most athlete’s a few hours of sustained, vigorous activity will deplete their stored carbohydrates, resulting in fatigue. So it’s important to eat/drink a small quick acting carbohydrate snack to maintain blood sugar and fuel your muscles and brain.

Post Workout

Current research suggests that for the best muscle repair and recovery- consume a good source of lean protein and complex carbohydrate within one hour after a long intense workout in order to replenish and repair muscle tissue.  You may choose liquid or solid foods.  Liquid food such as a healthy smoothie is often an easy option after a workout.  Examples of solid food choices may be yogurt with fruit, turkey and grapes, or a hard-boiled egg and a piece of fruit or a lean protein sandwich.

Is proper nutrition and hydration really that important?

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QUESTION: Is proper nutrition and hydration really that important?

Frank: Year in and year out, I witness the results of players choosing to ignore proper nutrition and hydration- both on the practice court and in tournament play. Nutrition and hydration (healthy lifestyle) are critical components in maximizing athletic performance. An athlete’s nutrition and hydration directly influence their physical, mental and emotional game. As parents, we have to insist that our players fuel properly before, during and after battle.

Just because athletes expend so much energy, does not mean junk food calories are okay. Improper nutrition and hydration will guarantee poor decision making skills as a result of low blood sugar levels to the brain, increased fatigue, headaches, nausea, cramping…etc.

“Poor nutrition and hydration can ruin any real chance of an athlete staying in their optimal performance state. Remember, to win a 64 draw event, a player has to perform at their peak level for
approximately 15 sets in 5 days.”

The following true story illustrates the importance a proper diet.

It is 7:00 am at the Riviera Tennis Club in Palm Springs, California.  The top tennis players from around the country arrived last night for the first round of the prestigious National Championships.

Walking through a hall of the west wing of the hotel and I can hear Leslie through their door, “Mom…STOP!!! I’m not hungry. Stop forcing me to eat! I’m too nervous. I don’t feel hungry!” This has been an on-going pre-match battle for Leslie and her mom Carol and this time would prove catastrophic.

Trying her best to avoid an emotional battle right before Leslie’s match, Carol gives up on her job of making sure Leslie is prepared for a three hour battle in the blazing Palm Springs heat. “So much for your nutrition and hydration requirements… I give up”, cries Carol.

The first match on Court 7 went to three tough sets so Leslie begins her scheduled 9:00 am match around 10:00 am. Leslie, being a top seed and a far superior athlete jumps out to a commanding 6-2 first set lead. Midway through the second set her wheels fall off. Leslie can’t seem to focus; her body feels uncoordinated and shaky. She complains of feeling dizzy, like she’s going to faint.  Leslie begins to make unforced errors left and right. She drops the second set 4-6. At the start of the critical third set the time is now 11:30 am. Leslie hasn’t fueled her body since last night’s dinner at 6:30 pm, which was 16 hours ago.

Guess who goes down in flames losing the third set 1-6? You got it-Leslie! Her disappointing first round loss was directly related to her stubbornness to fuel her body properly.

“Improper nutrition and hydration can destroy proper technical, mental and emotional training.”

Athletes employing improper nutrition and hydration can expect:

  • Lethargic play
  • Decreased strength & reaction time
  • Low physical, mental & emotional endurance
  • Impaired concentration, reduced court awareness & problem solving skills
  • Emotional break downs
  • Delayed muscle repair and recovery
  • Serious risk of dehydration and possible heat stroke (with as little as 1-2% dehydration)

Nutrition and the Athlete

Due to athletes’ individualized nutrition and hydration needs, specific individualized recommendations should be prescribed to maximizeperformance. (For more information visit the USTA/ITF websites or see a qualified sports nutritionist.)

Because I’m not an expert in the field of nutrition, I will highlight the basic nutrition and hydration fundamentals of a competitive athlete: a healthy balanced diet, proper hydration and nutrition timing- in the next post!

How will improved fitness accelerate my child’s game?

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QUESTION: How will improved fitness accelerate my child’s game?

Frank: First, let me remind you that The Tennis Parent’s Bible isn’t an Off-Court Fitness Manuel, but because fitness is such an integral component to developing athletic royalty, it is critical we cover the basics. Fitness training should begin as soon as an athlete enters the competitive stages of the game.  If finances are an issue and weekly sessions with a trainer is not feasible, consider paying a good trainer to devise a detailed plan you and your athlete can follow.

So how does fitness improve tennis success?

Fitness training accelerates a player’s physical, mental and emotional performance. When an athlete gets fatigued their movement gets sloppy, their technique is off and unforced errors begin to increase. Poor decision making and negative emotions set in.

Unfit players typically do not perform their rituals, they do not spot tendencies, and they do not manage their mistakes. Poor physical fitness manifests in mental and emotional breakdowns. For instance, most juniors go for low percentage plays due to the fact that they are too winded to properly execute the appropriate play. So, is physical training linked to the mental side of sports? Absolutely!

Tennis: Benefits of Physical Training

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Question: What are the benefits of physical training?

Frank:  Throughout my travels conducting workshops, both nationally and internationally, I ask parents of top ranked players an interesting question: “When was the last time your child competed hard for 15 practice sets in any given week?”  The most common Answer: Never!

Parents, is your child fit enough to compete at their peak performance level for fifteen sets in a week? If they’ve never done it in practice, do you truly expect them to be able to come through under those stressful, demanding tournament conditions?

To insure that they can compete week in and week out under those conditions, serious off-court tennis specific training is mandatory.  The successful high performance players train off court an average of 6 hours a week. In most cases, this is done before school.

The Following is a List of the Benefits of Being Fit:

  • Increased Confidence: A physically fit competitor has stimulated brain chemicals that encourage a calming state of mind.
  • Elevated Physical Energy
  • Enhanced Endurance
  • Reduced Fatigue and Soreness
  • Improved Flexible Skills Movement
  • Increased Acceleration and Deceleration Levels
  • Strong Bones and Strengthened Ligaments, Tendons and Muscles
  • Reduced Risk of Injury
  • Increased “Intimidation Factor”
  • Improved Cardiovascular Fitness: Facilitates proper breathing by increasing lung capacity which aids in improved cardiovascular function.

Now that you understand why tennis specific, off-court training is beneficial. Let’s look into the fitness components found in a skilled athlete who just happens to be a tennis player.

Example of Tennis Specific Skills to Develop:

  • Up and back movement
  • Lateral movement
  • Aerobic fitness
  • Ability to accelerate
  • Ability to decelerate
  • Speed and agility
  • Stamina
  • Recovery time (between points)
  • Recovery time (between matches)
  • Strength (upper body, core, and lower body)
  • Body coordination (gross motor skills)
  • Eye-hand coordination (fine motor skills)
  • Flexibility and stretching
  • Anticipatory speed

Signs of an Unfit Athlete

Being unfit actually affects more than the athletes physical performance. It has serious consequences within the player’s mental and emotional state of play. Parents, if you’re not sure if you’re athlete is fit or not, let me just say that if they aren’t training off-court a minimum of 6 hours a week, then they are most likely not fit enough to win whole tournaments at the high levels of junior tennis.

“The actual cause of a child’s emotional breakdown is often lack of fitness.”

If you have not done so already, consult a fitness expert for evaluation and/or add one to your entourage of coaches.  In modern tennis, it’s essential that your child is an athlete first and tennis player second.  The top college coaches are looking for experienced gifted athletes that they can mold into champion tennis players.

High Performance Tennis Roadblocks Part Two

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QUESTION: What are some of the hidden roadblocks and myths found in high performance tennis?

Cramming Last Minute for an Event

Cramming in training days before a national event will lead to your child’s “batteries” half full come match time. Also, their millisecond decision making skills won’t be sharp. They will likely hesitate with their judgments and often over think under stress. Lastly, last minute crammers usually end up playing sore or injured.

Mistake Management

It is essential that your child understands the difference between a “good” mistake and a “bad” mistake. Also, did the mistake stem from technical form, inappropriate shot selections or poor movement? Mentally making the appropriate corrections without emotional condemnation is important.

Anger Management

Poor preparation is the source of the problems that cause the anger. Plans and patterns should be nurtured months before an event. Tools are sharpened and the rust is buffed out.

“It’s not the opponent that causes the actual anger issues in a match. It’s the fact that the opponent has exposed a weakness that wasn’t fixed
before the match began.”

Blame Management

Blaming is a common excuse many juniors prefect. Changing string tension, racquets, coaches, and academies is a short-term feel good fix. However, designing a strong personalized developmental program and sticking to it is the solution to their problems.

“Intermediates spend most of their time working on the strokes they already own. Advanced players also spend time perfecting the strokes and patterns they wish to add to their tool belt.”

Lack of Pre-Match Routines and Rituals

Essential routines and rituals are used by professionals and often overlooked by junior competitors. Teens are often too cool to prepare properly. Champions act like champions long before they become champions.

To review, I highly recommend taking a bit of time to communicate the above player accountability issues with your athlete and their entourage of coaches. Plan on organizing solutions to the common roadblocks and de-bunking the myths. Again, if you, as a parent, are not comfortable with the developmental process, please hire a high IQ tennis professional to oversee not only your child’s strokes but their mental and emotional training components.

High Performance Tennis Roadblocks Part One

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QUESTION: What are some of the hidden roadblocks and myths found in high performance tennis?

Frank: It fascinates me how some junior athletes will hold on to crazy-beliefs. They would rather live in their “altered state of reality” and continue to get poor results than simply be accountable to their deliberate customized developmental plan. Below I have compiled some of the most common myths coming out of the mouths of your kids!

When I Become a Pro …Then I’ll Train like a Pro 

Professionals have to “live the life” for years before they actually win a single match on tour. The typical formula is approximately 20 hours a week for 10 years of customized training to compete on the ATP or WTA level. Quality of training always trumps quantity of court time. Begin by challenging your child to train about 20 hours a week for a month.

I Need More …More is Better

In matches, most juniors think about too many things. Their body is off balance at contact as opposing force vectors fly in all directions; their racquet head is rolling through the hitting zone and their running through four segment swings. The key is to simplify. Most often, improving is about “trimming the fat” not adding more.

I Will Just “Wing It” Later

Planning reduces stress. Often we see players begin to pack their racquets, find a new outfit, clean their water bottles, search for their over grips, print out the directions to the site, look up their opponent record, make breakfast, take a shower, brush their teeth all within the last 10 minutes before they are scheduled to leave. Hum…no wonder they’re angry and stressed.

I Played a Set Last Week …I’m Fine

To win major events you must be a good finisher. Building a tract record of closing out matches is the key. Exchange playing a set with playing 2 out of 3 sets and finish the match. The most important stage of any set is the end! If time is short, start each set at 2-2 but close out sets. On practice days, professionals routinely close out 2-4 sets a day.

I Can’t Control My Anger or my Drifting Mind

Re-programming these dominant thoughts takes about four to six weeks of serious focused attention. It’s often the same program as rebuilding a flawed stroke. Re-tooling your emotions and thoughts on court are learned behaviors.

To be Great, I Have to Play at My Peak Everyday

Peak level and peak efforts are two different elements. It is too taxing to be physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally ready to battle every day of their lives. After a tournament you should “unplug.” That’s right, recharge the batteries. In the practice phase strive for peak effort and let go of peak performance.

If You’re Laughing, You’re not Working Hard Enough

When you laugh, dance, smile or even hug someone you get biochemical surges of positive energy. Neuroscience studies clearly show that when you smile and laugh you stay in the correct (right) side of your brain. This is where muscles flow effortlessly and great decisions are made quickly. When you’re mad, judgmental or over analytical the right side of your brain shuts down and you are toast!

Believing If You’re a Better Athlete, Then You’ll Win

Being a better physical athlete is only one third of the battle. If your child is weaker mentally or emotionally they will struggle. Another way to look at this issue is if an opponent looks physically superior to the rest of the field then there is most likely something missing or something broken in their mental or emotional components. If they were superior in all three, they wouldn’t be in a local junior draw.

Procrastination

Big time national titles are won by the champions because they accept the fact that they will be shedding serious blood, sweat and tears months before the event begins. Procrastinators often do everything else except focus 100 percent on improving. As long as they do not actually give 100 percent on the practice court, they will have a built in excuse… “If I had the time to practice, I could have beat her…etc.”

Thinking that Practicing for One Hour is Good Enough

Top tournament play often requires that your child compete in two, best of three sets, single matches daily. Since doubles play results count for their overall ranking, throw in a doubles matches as well.

Under Training Off-Court

If your child “thinks” that they are mostly in shape…they are most likely not in shape. Players that are in great shape “know” they are in great shape. Getting past the third day of a big event is going to be a challenge for every junior who only “thinks” they’re in shape.

“Solid fundamentals will get them in the draw. Being crazy fit keeps them in the draw. But being mentally and emotionally stable under stress wins titles.”

Thriving Under Pressure

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QUESTION: Why do some athletes thrive under extreme pressure and some melt down?

Frank: Here’s my understanding of how the brain functions under stress. Nobel Prize winning Neuro-Scientist Julius Axelrod found that some people crack under pressure more than others because they process slower and become overwhelmed in time-sensitive stressful environments.

In the brain, this is seen as an over-flow of dopamine in their prefrontal cortex (Where quick decision making and conflict resolution takes place.) Stress floods the synapses of the prefrontal cortex with too much dopamine. After the flood, the gene called COMT (catechol-O-methyltransferase) is stimulated to come to the rescue…

Scientists have found that this gene actually comes in two types: fact acting and slow acting. Those athletes with fast acting COMT enzymes clear the excess dopamine quickly allowing the athlete not to overload. Those with slow moving enzymes cause some folks to overload and shut down under stress.

The good news for these natural born worry warts is that if they rehearse being comfortable with the feelings of being uncomfortable their dopamine doesn’t overflow the prefrontal cortex. Meaning, performing under pressure isn’t felt as such intense pressure any longer. You see, what becomes a habit, isn’t as scary. So if your child melts down under stress, ask their team of coaches to add stress simulations to their daily drills and watch your child become “clutch.”

QUESTION: Why do some juniors see a performance review as character assassination?

Frank: Successfully navigating the world requires continual analysis and review. An effective developmental plan needs to be tweaked and enhanced for continued growth. The art of becoming athletic royalty demands the player, coach and parent communicate about the developmental direction. Players that thrive in the college world have nurtured their communication skills as well as their athletic skills.

Unfortunately, some juniors view, performance reviews as lengthy rants pointing out all of their failures. Of course, in the eyes of an experienced coach or parent, performances are actually seen as information gathering missions- not as life or death or win or lose affairs.

Performance reviews are a beautiful chance to discuss issues (successes and failures) so successes continue to increase and failures decrease in the future. Ignoring successes or failures and assuming they all happen by chance is delusional.

Juniors who don’t bother to learn from their short comings are destined to repeat them. I challenge the coaches/parents to communicate with your child about the event. Dig deeper, learn from the facts and review the stats, charts and video analysis. Juniors, try your best to understand why you’re not getting the results you’re capable of getting.

The Secrets Behind Nadal’s Success

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QUESTION: Should my son copy Nadal?

Frank: Before I answer this question, let’s review some of the facts I love about Rafael Nadal…and you should too.

His Uncle taught him how to play. They’ve stuck together as a team. That’s respectful. At 14, The Spanish Federation invited him to train in Barcelona, essentially, taking over his training.  He already had a great team so he declined. That’s loyalty.

As a youngster, his emotions were like a volcano, so his uncle made him play with dead balls and inferior gear to teach him how to deal with adversity. That builds character.

Nadal has an entourage: His coaches, trainers, hitters and agent has been with him for the long haul. That’s smart!

Nadal has a pre match routine that he uses before every match: He gets to the site a few hours early to warm up on a side court; he showers, eats, then gets taped up; he plays the match in his head (visualization) a half hour before it begins; he puts on his favorite Spanish pop music and then The Phantom of The Opera on his iPod; he jogs, jumps in place and builds a sweat while visualizing his performance goals. Great preparation- that’s admirable!

Nadal’s focus is on the need to improve versus the need to win. Rafa was quoted as saying “To improve you have to make mistakes.  That’s the problem with improving, you have to accept this.” That’s intelligent!

In early 2008 at #2 in the world, Uncle Tony decided that Rafa needed to improve his offensive court position to win major hard and grass court events. For months, they worked on positioning on the baseline, taking balls early and stealing volleys.   He went from being a retriever to a counter puncher, to an attacker. Rafa’s insight, knowing he could still improve, yielded him an Olympic gold, a Wimbledon Championship and the world’s #1 ranking. That’s brilliant!

Rafa has had more than his share of injuries yet comes back stronger than ever.  That’s character!  (2004- A stress fracture took him off the court for 3 months; 2005- a mysterious foot injury sidelined him for months; 2009- knee tendentious took him out for 2 months… the list goes on.)

Rafa is a well-rounded person who has outside interests and hobbies. He can be found enjoying golf and fishing on his days off. He also champions his own charity foundation called Fundacion Rafa Nadal.  That’s honorable!

Rafa is disciplined. The next step after motivation is discipline. He does what he has to do when he has to do it.  No excuses, no procrastination. That’s commitment!

So, should your son copy Rafa? You Bet!

Below are tips your child can implement to attain Champion Skill Sets like Rafa Nadal:

  • Hit the gym to gain tennis-specific strength.
  • Commit to improving with unrelenting determination.
  • Develop the mental side of shot selection to master offense, neutral & defensive skills.
  • Schedule time to strengthen their speed, stamina, and agility.
  • Revise their between point rituals to enhance their “clear headedness” of shot selection on big points.
  • Upgrade their ability to apply spin.
  • Cultivate the competitive attitude. Do this by adding simulated stress with every drill. We call them “stress buster drills.”
  • Perfect the ability to live in the moment (producing precisely what the moment calls for) by rehearsing closing out sets. Replace the need to win with the love of the battle.
  • Reform their calmness under stress, by simulating those intense moments.

FUN FACT: Average ball rotation off Agassi’s forehand: 1800 rpm’s, Federer’s forehand: 2500 rpm, Nadal’s forehand: 3200 rpm’s

The mental and emotional strength of being a fierce competitor and a respectful human being is a learned behavior and is a factor in player accountability. 

SPECIAL NOTE: No one can outperform their self-image. Due to their work ethic, perseverance and consistent discipline, athletes like Rafa, have inner strength and inner excellence. They truly believe in themselves and their abilities because they’ve earned the belief.

Breaking Through a Rut

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QUESTION: My daughter is losing to players she use to beat. Can you help?

Frank: The quickest way to break through a rut and go up a level is to challenge your child to focus on improving versus winning. Rekindle your daughter’s confidence by adding new tools to her game. Ask your youngster to compete only against herself.  This is a sensational way to progress without the stress. To illustrate this point, I’ll be using a student of mine from New York. Her name is Kaitlin. She was also in a rut. Below I have listed three of Kaitlin’s issues and her customized solution.

Issue #1: Negative Emotional Outburst

Challenge: We have asked Kaitlin to focus on reducing the sheer number of negative outburst by 25 % each match for the next month. The parent’s role is to chart the number of times the Kaitlin displays the undesired response. If she hits her mark and decreases her negative emotional outburst by 25 percent, she is a winner!

Issue #2: Serving Second Serves to the Opponent’s Forehand

Challenge: Stop feeding the forehand. Kaitlin serves 80 percent of her second serves to the opponent’s strength. Her challenge is to serve 80 percent of her second serves to the opponent’s weakness. The parent’s role in this case is to chart each serve in match play. If Kaitlin can improve her second serve and place it 80% of the time to the opponent’s weaker side, she is a winner!

Issue #3: Beating a Retriever

Challenge: To change the way Kaitlin and her dad think about retriever/pushers opponents. The first challenge is to assist them in understanding that they have been misled- thinking retrievers die out in the 12’s! In my experience, retrievers are one of the most prevalent styles in women’s college tennis.

The second challenge is to ask Kaitlin and her parent’s to switch their focus from grooving fundamental strokes to understanding and developing the patterns used to pull those crafty retrievers out of their comfort zone.

A great place to start when rekindling confidence is to list the four main components of the game. Agree to a radical shift in training. Let go of the old comfortable methods and simply choose one key element in each component to focus on in the next month.

Kaitlin’s Challenges Include:

Stroke Mechanics: Developing her second serve. (Power, Spin, Placement, Consistency)

Mental: Choosing to hit the shot the moment demands. (Shot Selections)

Emotional: Performance anxieties. (Handling Pushers)

Athleticism: Improved fitness. (Speed, Agility, and Stamina)

“Athletes who practice with a deliberate, customized approach usually produce greater benefits in 2 hours than those who invest 6 hours of mindless hitting.”

Taking back control requires taking concrete actions. Replacing past unproductive behaviors with new proactive actions is key to rekindling growth.

Letting Go of Perfectionism

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QUESTION: How can my daughter let go of perfectionism?

Frank: Begin by discussing how striving for perfection is a demoralizing proposition. Studies show that the obsession of being perfect doesn’t lead to any substantial gains. Studies also show that given the same level of intellect and skills- perfectionists perform under par versus their less stressed out counterparts. The reality is that with a sport like tennis, a calm, relaxed state of mind is essential for peak performance.

Successful tennis players are satisfied winning about 66 percent of the points in each match. That’s simply 2 out of 3 points. Doing so allows imperfection. It also allows the opponent a little glory as they lose the match. This provides a critical distressing environment where playing at peak performance is possible. The following is a list of behaviors perfectionist need to address:

Controlled Aggression

Unfortunately for most perfectionists, the fear of losing is so great that they fall into the trap of “playing not to lose.” Pushing and playing safe is often caused by fear. The fear of missing is often the cause miss hits! Champions continue to attempt the shot the moment demands.

Unrealistic Expectations

Top nationally ranked juniors enter, on average, 30 tough tournaments a year. If they win three of those events, it’s a great year. That mean they go home losers 27 weeks a year! Perfectionists, if you are winning 70 percent of your matches, you are ahead of the curve.

Self-Critical Behaviors

Perfectionists, it’s ok to have a Gatorade stain on your un-tucked shirt. Your hair should be messy. It’s ok to shank a few winners. Play slow and decrease ball speed. Give the opponent what they hate versus what you think looks like “good” tennis. Allow yourself to miss some. It doesn’t have to always be pretty. Often, perfectionists would rather lose than win ugly.

Focus on Executing Rituals

Studies show that about 75-80 percent of the time you’re on court; you are in between points. Perfectionists would be wise to focus on the process of proper internal change over and between point rituals instead of berating themselves over every mistake.

Self-Trust

Perfectionists overthink things to the point of confusion. For some, trusting their gut instincts isn’t a valid processing system. Decisions come after every factor is overanalyzed to the point of exhaustion.

Attitude

Understand that you choose your attitude and perfectionism is an attitude.  This means that you have the freedom to change it. If your athlete is planning to play tennis in college, this is a major issue. I call it attitude versus aptitude. College coaches are searching for players with an optimistic positive attitude. A team player with a positive attitude is a pleasure to help. A pessimistic perfectionist with a horrible attitude is every college coach’s nightmare.

Focus on Getting the Win…Not the Double Bagel

Define a new, more reasonable goal. In any given round of any given tournament the objective is to get the win and progress to the next round. The purpose isn’t a perfect 6-0, 6-0 score without missing a single ball. The purpose is to simply get one thing accomplished and that’s the result.

Parents, educate your perfectionist to accept excellence versus perfection. It’s a healthier state of mind.