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The Tennis Parent’s Bible AUDIO BOOK

Posted on May 28, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The following is the Tennis Parent’s Bible foreword from Johan Kriek

FOREWORD By 2 Time ATP Grand Slam Champion: Johan Kriek

Many may hear the name Johan Kriek and recognize me as a top-ranking tennis professional. What they may not realize is the hard work and dedication achieving ATP Tour level status required. I earned an ATP ranking of top 7 and won 2 Grand Slam titles during my approximately twenty-five years of competing in high level professional tennis, amongst the likes of Connors, Borg and McEnroe, but my incredible career came with great sacrifice and heartache. Firsthand knowledge of the benefits of supportive tennis parents makes me a perfect fit to foreword Frank Giampaolo’s second edition of The Tennis Parent’s Bible.

As a kid growing up in a rural community in South Africa, my mom, Ria, drove me to all my junior tournaments, while my dad and siblings stayed home on the farm. My parent’s played recreational tennis and understood a little about the game but never in their wildest dreams could they have known what was to come. My mom was always positive and constantly reinforcing belief.  She did a lot of things right without even knowing it …But looking back that was not enough.

I have been in the junior tennis development business for a number of years now and I have pretty much seen it all. Parenting is difficult enough in this modern age but parenting AND having a budding tennis star is altogether a tougher challenge. Frank is spot on with bringing to light the extreme importance of the parent’s role in the tennis journey. More often than I would like to admit, parents uneducated about the developmental process unknowingly cause “train wrecks” in their budding tennis players.

Parental education with respect to junior tennis development is a vital component to future success, whether it be college education or shooting for the pros. It is a tough journey with many more “downs than ups” as losing is a huge part of the development of a tennis junior. It is vitally important, in my humble opinion; that parents “arm” themselves with the knowledge found in “The Tennis Parent’s Bible” to better facilitate the growth and happiness of their children. Parent education is quite possibly one of, if not the most neglected part of junior athletic development.

Mastering the game of tennis is a process that demands technical, mental and emotional skills throughout a child’s development. The parents need to understand that competency requires in-depth knowledge. The highly competitive individuals that are not trained the appropriate mental and emotional IQ face incredible anguish for which they have no way of dealing.

Many parents hope (pretty much what my mom did) that their children will eventually “grow up and mature.” But this is not the right way to go about it. I was hyper competitive and because I was a type A Plus personality, I flew off the handle a lot. This poor behavior came to bite me hard during my career. Suffice to say I succeeded despite myself. If I had better training as a youngster on how to deal with my emotions in a better way, I would have been a much better and happier competitor.

Frank Giampaolo is a rare guy to have addressed these issues by writing a number of books on developing athletes.  I highly recommend this second edition of The Tennis Parent’s Bible to any tennis coach or parent. Believe me, even if you think you are an “expert” tennis coach or parent, you need to read this book.

I commend Frank on his incredibly forward thinking in compiling an in-depth collection of much needed knowledge pushing the tennis industry forward.

Good luck!

Now Available the Audio Version of The Tennis Parent’s Bible

Posted on May 15, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The following post is from Industry Professionals about THE TENNIS PARENT’S BIBLE

“This book is a must read for any parent with a child who’s serious about competing in Tennis – or in any individual sport.”

Jon Wertheim, Exclusive Editor, Sports Illustrated

“Even if you think you are an ‘expert’ tennis coach or parent, you need to read this book.”

Johan Kriek, 2-time Grand Slam Champion Australian Open

“The Tennis Parent’s Bible is filled with invaluable information that any tennis parent or coach will benefit from in their quest to help children reach their full potential.”

Nick Saviano, WTA Professional Tennis Coach, Saviano High Performance Tennis

“Frank is quickly becoming one of the games most respected and influential teachers. As the coach of a #1 WTA player, I recommend The Tennis Parent’s Bible to anyone serious about developing a champion.”

Sam Sumyk, Former Coach of Victoria Azarenka

“A must have, compelling read. The second edition of The Tennis Parent’s Bible is a go-to guide to raising world class athletes & young adults. I highly recommend it.”

Peter Smith, USC Men’s Tennis Coach, 5-Time NCAA Champions

“The Tennis Parent’s Bible (2nd Edition) brings clarity to the often-terrifying journey of raising a champion. If you read only one book this year… This is the one.”

Dave Fish, Harvard University Men’s Tennis Coach

“The Tennis Parent’s Bible is a must read for any competitive tennis family. This book should be on each parent’s night stand and in every coach’s racket bag.

Craig Tiley, Tournament Director Australian Open, Director of Tennis, Tennis Australia

“There are few people who have earned as much respect in the tennis world. Frank is a positive visionary.”

Dick Gould, Stanford University (The most successful coach in college tennis history.)

Opponent Profiling: Disrupting Rhythms

Posted on May 3, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Disrupting Rhythms

Riley: “Well, if I’m winning, I don’t worry about it. If I’m losing, I definitely add the mental strategy of controlling the speed of the match. If they’re successful in playing fast, I slow it down to a snail’s pace. I try to dictate the temp out there.”

The speed at which games unfold plays a role in the dynamics of the match. Understanding your opponent’s speed of play and being able to disrupt their rhythm can provide a distinct advantage. Let’s dive into the importance of analyzing the pace of play, allowing you to dictate the tempo to compete on your terms.

1 Assessing Speed of Play

Analyze the factors influencing the point, such as their preferred court position, taking balls on the rise, and quickness while attacking the net. On the other hand, their efforts in playing twenty feet behind the court in a solid defensive mode slows down ball speed. Also, please pay attention to the length of their between-point tempo during the different phases of the match.

2 Exploiting Fast-Paced Players

In points, apply techniques such as changing your shots’ spins, speeds, and trajectory to disrupt their rhythm. Explore strategies to disrupt their quick play in between points and calmly neutralize their quick play.

3 Neutralizing Slow-Paced Players

Learn techniques such as aggressive court positions, taking balls on the rise yourself, and employing swing volleys to reduce their recovery and reaction time. Develop strategies to counter their deliberate slow in between point style and disrupt their preferred slow rhythm.

4 Managing Your Speed

Focus on the importance of managing your own preferred playing tempo to maintain control of the match speed. This strategy is part of your tennis identity. Learn techniques such as pacing yourself, resetting, and managing your recovery time between points to optimize your performance.

5 Mental Resilience and Speed of Play

Explore techniques to stay mentally resilient and focused, regardless of the tempo that your opponent is setting. Obviously, they’re trying their best to pull you out of your peak performance level- part of the chess match of competitive tennis. Expect worthy opponents to try to dictate play.

By assessing and adapting to your opponent’s speed, you can dictate the tempo and disrupt their decision-making process. Whether facing a fast-paced player or a slower paced opponent, employing strategies to disrupt their rhythm will give you a distinct advantage in the struggle. Accept it and plan on controlling the mental dominance in high performance tennis.

Opponent Profiling: Spotting Stroke Strengths and Weaknesses

Posted on April 17, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Danny: “In the warm-up, I feed balls deep right at their body. It speaks volumes if they run around their backhand to hit forehands.”

You need to be able to identify if a swing is bio-mechanically flawed. This is done by analyzing anomalies (what’s present but shouldn’t be and what should be there but isn’t) in their stroke mechanics. Any faulty technique can and should be exploited. Let’s explore the process of spotting stroke strengths and weaknesses and how this knowledge can be used to formulate winning game plans and exploit those vulnerabilities.

1 The Significance of Stroke Analysis

By recognizing stroke strengths and weaknesses, you can apply strategies to avoid strengths and attack weaknesses. Rehearse how spotting these aspects should influence your shot selection and tactical approaches.

2 Shot Selections

Identify their preferred tendencies in different situations, such as their choices and habits in their offensive, neutral and defensive play. Stay alert for changes throughout the stages of the match. It’s your job to identify predictable shot patterns and disrupt their decision making.

3 Effective Strokes

Keep in mind that elegant strokes are sometimes not that effective, and unorthodox strokes can sometimes be very effective. Observe their grip; for example, various forehand grips are used on the tournament trail. They all have their advantages and disadvantages.

4 Exploiting Strike Zones

Identify weaknesses in your opponent’s sock level and shoulder level strike zones. Spot inconsistency, lack of power, or difficulty with different strike zones. Be willing and able to exploit situations that force them to rely on their weaker strike zones.

5 Countering Strengths

Develop strategies to counter their stroke strengths and minimize their impact. Learn techniques such as changing pace, varying spin, or using different trajectories to neutralize their strongest strokes.

You will gain a competitive edge in mental warfare by dissecting their stroke strengths and weaknesses. Enjoy the complexities of dissecting opponents. At the higher levels, you don’t miraculously rise to the occasion-you sink to the level of your training.

What Do Top Tennis Coaches Seek?

Posted on April 2, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The following post is an excerpt from the newly updated How to Attract a College Athletic Scholarship.

What Do Top Coaches Seek?

Let’s start this section with the opinion of an award-winning multi-NCAA D-1 National Champion men’s college coach. The following are a dozen of his tips for those in the college search process.

Suggestions Include:

  1. Research and recruit the colleges that fit your child’s needs and wants.
  2. Don’t wait for coaches to recruit your child. It is the job of the athlete and their parents to contact the coaches.
  3. Don’t confuse a smooth recruiter with a good coach. Next year, they’ll heavily recruit someone else instead of coaching your child.
  4. Please start the process of researching colleges by their freshman year. Begin by itemizing a list of their top 10 collegiate choices.
  5. Coaches don’t want to hear about ten and under rankings. Develop a full game.
  6. Although the high school competition level may be a consideration, most college coaches do not view high school results as important.
  7. Coaches are very interested in the athlete’s entourage. The parents’ moral code and the primary coach’s tennis IQ speak volumes to a recruiter.
  8. When organizing the email letter, include a video link of your child performing in a competitive situation. Coaches want to see the athlete in action before they read pages of information.
  9. Begin pursuing your college prospects by sending emails and making unofficial school visits around the start of your sophomore year.
  10. Assure your emails are short and to the point. In a resume, include your GPA, SAT, and other test scores and criteria requested by the school, along with athletic achievements, such as Sectional, National, and International UTR and ITF rankings.
  11. Be prepared to resend the email 2-3 times before you get a response.
  12. Remember, coaches have rules to follow; recruits don’t! You can approach us, but we can’t approach you.

Frank’s guide will assist in prioritizing your top picks. Once your top 10 list is set, familiarize yourself with your preferred universities’ GPA & exam requirements. The academic and athletic scholarship requirements will be specific for each university. Knowing the particular criteria of your chosen schools will help you organize your academic schedule leading into your child’s junior and senior year of high school.

“Athletes are often held to an academic standard different than non-athletic students.”

Frank Giampaolo

Here are a few fun facts for the detailed parent: An estimated 400,000 student-athletes are among the 15,000,000 students attending college. There are approximately 12,000 college athletic programs and 35,000 college coaches. Over 150,000 of those student-athletes earn $2.4 billion in athletic scholarships annually. The National Collegiate Athletic Association (NCAA) D-1 universities have an additional “Student Assistant Fund” of approximately $75 million to help athletes with other incidental expenses.

Before you become overwhelmed by the numbers, I recommend choosing your top ten schools. Part Four will guide you through the beginning phases of your college search process.

“Free” Athletic College Scholarship?

Posted on March 30, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Hidden Costs of “Free” Athletic College Scholarship

For many parents and athletes, the dream of securing a college athletic scholarship feels like the ultimate reward—years of hard work culminating in the chance to attend college “for free.” However, this perception is often far from reality. Athletic scholarships are not free; they result from years of financial, emotional, and time-intensive investments. Families usually begin paying it forward long before the athlete reaches college. From specialized coaching to tournament travel, the costs of developing a world-class athlete can be staggering, requiring dedication and financial sacrifice.

The financial journey starts early, with parents often enrolling their children in youth sports programs to nurture their talent. The costs of lessons, equipment, and club memberships quickly add up. In modern tennis, for example, private lessons with a world-class coach can range from $100 to $200 an hour, and a competitive junior athlete will require multiple lessons weekly. In addition, the cost of clinics, academies, racquets, restringing, and proper footwear can easily surpass $50k annually. These investments are crucial to ensure the athlete stays competitive internationally.

Travel is another significant expense. Competing in regional, national, or international tournaments is essential for gaining exposure to college recruiters, but it comes with a hefty price tag. Flights, hotels, rental cars, and tournament entry fees can add up to tens of thousands of dollars annually. Some families relocate closer to tennis hotspots such as Southern California or South Florida, adding relocation costs. These sacrifices often go unspoken but form the backbone of the athlete’s ability to compete at the highest levels.

Finally, there are the hidden costs—mental health support, physical therapy for injuries, and the emotional toll of a high-stakes athletic journey. Parents and athletes alike endure stress, long hours, and uncertainty, hoping their investment will pay off. Even when an athletic scholarship is secured, the work doesn’t stop. College athletes face grueling schedules balancing academics and sports, often requiring additional parental financial support for equipment upgrades, travel, and supplemental training. While the scholarship might cover tuition, families may realize they’ve already spent the equivalent—or more—of a college education to get there. Far from being “free,” an athletic scholarship is a testament to years of dedication, financial planning, and sacrifice.

Unveiling Common Stressors

Posted on March 7, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

Wiring Your Inner Dialog

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Unveiling Common Stressors

In competition, where pressure abound, stressors are a natural part of the landscape. Stressors are the triggers that evoke emotional and psychological responses within us, often affecting our inner dialog and subsequently influencing our performance on the court. Recognizing and understanding these stressors is a pivotal step in rewiring your inner dialog for success.

Identifying Stressors in Tennis

Stressors can emerge from various sources ranging from the pressure to perform in high-stakes matches to the expectations you place on yourself. Identifying these stressors is crucial, as it allows you to proactively address them and change their impact on your mindset. Let’s dive into these common blunders:

1. Perfectionism: One Mistake And I’ve Failed: This a common personality trait associated with striving to be flawless and often involves being critical of imperfections. Playing bold requires athletes to allow some mistakes. There’s a big difference between a good error (going for the correct shot and not executing) versus attempting the wrong shot for that same situation. 

2. Catastrophizing: Blowing Things Out of Proportion: Catastrophizing involves magnifying the potential consequences of a situation to an extreme degree. It’s the voice that whispers that a missed shot or a lost set will lead to disastrous outcomes. By identifying catastrophizing patterns, you can bring a more realistic perspective to your thought process and prevent unnecessary anxiety.

3. Magnifying: Amplifying Negativity: The magnifying stressor involves blowing up minor issues into major problems, magnifying the negative aspects of a situation while downplaying the positive. This skewed perception can hinder your ability to focus on the task at hand and derail your performance.

4. Polarizing: Black-and-White Thinking: Polarizing stressors manifest  when situations are seen as either all good or all bad, with no middle ground. This type of thinking can be particularly detrimental in tennis, as it leads to an inability to adapt to changes and see the positives even when you lose the point.

Harnessing Stressors: Understand that you can’t avoid stress in competition. It’s a natural byproduct of being judged. It’s your job to accept the situation with maturity and manage the moment. As soon as you feel outcome pressure, return to your between point relaxation response. The physiological change helps lower your heart rate, calms your breathing and allows you to stop and reset.

By dismantling these stressors, you’ll break their hold on your inner dialog. This sets the stage for a powerful transformation – one that paves the way for rewiring your mental landscape. 

Tennis: Consistent Quality over Quantity

Posted on February 15, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Consistent Quality over Quantity

 Quality should always take precedence over quantity when it comes to consistent development in tennis. In this chapter we will explore why prioritizing quality off-court training and practice sessions are essential for maintaining consistent growth and performance.

1 Efficient Practice Sessions

Efficient well-structured practice sessions that target specific “situational awareness” areas of improvement yield better results.

2 Purposeful Repetition

Mindless repetition without a focused objective can be counterproductive. Athletes should purposefully be working on specific aspects of their game.

3 Deliberate Practice

This requires continuously pushing beyond your comfort zone. It involves setting challenging tasks, receiving feedback, and making targeted adjustments to refine skills.

4 Mental Engagement

Developing a focused and present mindset is wise- eliminating distractions and dedicating full attention to each hour in the gym or on the court.

5 Match Simulations

It’s your job to ask to incorporate specific match simulations into your training. Replicate the pressure conditions and scenarios you’ll likely encounter during tournament play.

6 Minimize Vulnerabilities

Consistency requires being honest about your weaknesses and dedicating focused practice time to minimize vulnerabilities. Consistently targeting and improving weaknesses builds a well rounded competitor. 

7 Maximize Strengths

Arguably, even more important than minimizing weaknesses is maximizing strengths. Plan on dedicating time to improving your weapons. After all, the bigger the weapons, the simpler the strategy.

8 Monitoring Progress

Monitor weekly progress to track improvements and make necessary adjustments. Athletes should establish measurable goals and regularly assess their performance against these objectives.

9 The Mindset of Mastery

Achieving consistent improvement involves maintaining a passion for learning. Athletes who approach their development with this mindset are more likely to leave their old comfort zone and push into their mastery zone.

10 Patience and Long-Term Perspective

Recognizing that progress may not always be linear and that development stalls and progresses throughout the journey.

“By utilizing these consistent behaviors, you’ll reframe your inner belief and confidence.”

Frank Giampaolo

Maintaining a positive attitude and a mastery mindset to develop your skills consistently is in your new job description. After all, attitude is a choice.

Tennis: The Fear of Mistakes

Posted on January 4, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Fear of Mistakes

James stood at the baseline, ready to serve. The stadium lights cast a sharp glare on the court, intensifying the pressure of the moment. He could feel his father’s eyes, his coach’s expectations, and the weight of his outcome desires bearing down on him once again.

A whirlwind of doubt swirled in his mind as he prepared to begin his service motion. What if I double-fault? What if I miss? What if he crushes his return? The fear of making a mistake gripped him like a vice. James was so scared he could feel his muscles tighten as he visualized catastrophe. James double-faulted and gifted a winnable match away.

1 The Paralyzing Grip of Fear

The fear of mistakes is a formidable opponent in competition- the voice that whispers in your ear, warning you of the consequences of a misstep. For James and many competitive tennis players, fear can be paralyzing. It steals the joy from the game, erodes confidence, and sabotages performance.

2 Mistakes as Learning Tools

But what if I told you that mistakes are not your enemy? In fact, they can be your greatest allies. It’s a perspective shift that James had to learn the hard way. James had always viewed mistakes as failures, as evidence that he wasn’t good enough. But as he continued to battle the fear of mistakes, I challenged his thinking. I taught him to see mistakes not as failures but as invaluable learning tools. It took about a month for James to reframe his mindset.

3 The Power of Resilience

Every double fault and every netted volley became an opportunity to grow and improve. James learned that resilience was the key to overcoming the fear of mistakes. It was about bouncing back stronger after mistakes and possessing the grit to keep fighting his fears.

4 Good Mistakes

It’s time to shift your mindset from fearing errors to learning to identify good errors versus bad errors. James learned that If he’s attempting to boldly hit the correct shot the moment demands and fails to execute, then it’s a good error and acceptable.

5 Bad Mistakes

A bad mistake occurs when you miss a reckless shot. When you are attempting the incorrect shot in the situation, you’re in. James now recognizes that his poor choices are bad mistakes. Learning the difference is essential throughout your journey toward improvement.

6 Playing to Your Strengths

Tennis is a game of diverse skills and abilities, and recognizing where you excel is a game changer. When you understand your tennis identity, you can play a game style that is customizable to you. Exposing your strengths in big points is the catalyst for peak performance.

“I wonder about all the things good athletes miss out on when they allow fear to stop them. When they run from fear, they don’t take the chances that would change everything.” 

So, as we look into the depths of the fear of mistakes, remember that it’s not about avoiding errors; it’s about embracing the difference between good and bad errors. It’s about deciding on your tennis identity and practicing with your strengths in the manner in which you’re expected to perform.

Tennis: Attacking Fear

Posted on December 27, 2024 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Attacking Fear

It wasn’t the opponent that troubled Sarah; it was the familiar knot of fear that had taken residence in the pit of her stomach. She’d been here before, facing highly ranked opponents, and fear had caused her to choke.

As she prepared to return serve, Sarah’s mind raced with doubt. What if I make a mistake and lose this point? What if I disappoint my coach and myself? The fear of failure consumed her like it always had.

At that moment, Sarah realized that this fear, this internal adversary, was holding her back from winning another match. With this habit of running from fear, Sarah played two sloppy points, gifting away another winnable match.

This chapter is not just Sarah’s story; it’s a glimpse into the minds of countless tennis players who have stood so close to victory only to be pulled back by the invisible chains of fear.

1.1 The Nature of Fear

Fear is a powerful force that manifests in many forms under stress. It might be the fear of making mistakes and facing the consequences, the fear of losing and the disappointment it brings, or the fear of letting down those who believe in us. These fears are not unique to Sarah; they’re part of the human experience. But fear is the catalyst for growth, a signal that you’re on the brink of something extraordinary. It all depends on how you choose to respond to it.

1.2 Attacking Fear Head On

The first step in conquering fear is acknowledging its presence. Sarah learned that by recognizing her fear, she could begin to understand and control it. It was time to attack fear head-on and confront it with the same intensity that she approached in her physical training.

1.3 Expose Yourself

The more you give in to fear by thinking you can hide or run from it, the larger it looms. Fear sees every learning opportunity and every minor problem as a threat. When most detect fear, they avoid it. A champion’s job is to attack it. Reframe the consequence of fear. If you’re feeling fear, it means you’re about to do something special.

1.4 Fear Is Part of The Game

Fear is a part of the game, but it doesn’t have to be a defining factor in your competitive persona. It’s time to confront your fears, rewrite your narrative, and unleash your tennis potential. If your rivals can do it, so can you.

1.5 Reframing Fear

Think about relabeling fear as excitement. You will likely attract positive results if you’re excited about a new situation. Ask yourself: “What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?” And “What if everything goes right?”

“The bold athletes feel afraid but choose to attack that fear.”